It must be noted that sex is not about a man getting done, but both. It is very painful for a man to be completely exhausted while the woman is half way or not even close to finishing. How long sex should last is how long it takes for both to cum.
However, it is not always that both will be satisfied for various reasons. Sex is in the mind. So don’t kill yourself. Number of rounds or minutes does not matter as long as both cum. Never be physiologically defeated into believing in a number of rounds or minutes. The way we differ in body sizes, working schedules, daily pressure, thats how each couple differ.
One couple can both be done in 5 minutes while the other in 20 minutes. Never be defeated into doing like your neighbours. Probably your neighbour’s spouse is much warmer than yours or she/he has small or big, long or short instrument than your spouse. May be your neighbour’s work is not demanding and they have all the energy for sex.
Things that may cause a man to cum quickly than normal;
1. Wife mourning or screeming. Most marriage counselors discourage wives to scream during sex because it misleads a man. It makes him think he has reached or hit the button meanwhile not. This culture is mostly used by sexual workers or side chick’s to make a man believe he is the best or hammers better. Be at easy.
2. Too much focus on the thighs or beauty of a woman. If you want to take long, take your mind a bit off from the woman’s body. The moment you begin thinking like you are in, she is hot, you begin looking at the breast, look at how she is chewing her teeth, you cum quickly.
3. Let your sexual speed be controlled by a woman, move at her speed and let it be passionate. Depending on how tiny, shaped, big or small her instrument may be, ensure you hummer her at the loose position. I mean, you cum fast if you are squeezed too much. So for her sake, don’t be squeezed but on loose.
4. Let her initiate sex. Most women don’t enjoy sex because they don’t tell husbands when they need for fear that she will be labeled as a prostitute. Truth is that its better to start when the woman is at 50% and a man at 10%. Starting together will make him cum twice and her once.
5. Myth. Some of words men use or some of the beliefs make a woman to pretend in marriage. Brothers, don’t be fooled, all our wives know all types of styles and they can do wonders in bed but they fear to be labeled. Some men believe that a woman who knows so much styles was prostitute. It’s not true. You are the only man she has and she must experience the best. And you are the only experiment she has.
6. Trust. Someone have low self esteem because of the acts of a mam. When she notices you are misbehaving with other women, she will feel unappreciated and will begin to give just for a man to cum.
