1. Check his willingness to uplift your life. Ability to spend on you for things like clothes not food. Fake guys fond of spoiling their lovers.
2. Check if part of his salary is spent with the purpose of settling himself down not tuma smart twa ma junk. Issues of ka plot, vehicle, bicycle, opening ka business etc.
3. Check the house he is renting or planning to rent and types of furniture he is buying.
4. Observe the kinds of people he introduces you to. Uncle’s, pastors, work mates is a good sign not just to his best friend. Best freinds are fake to trust.
5. Willingness to reach to your parents or engage you. Stories of wanting to go back to school are bad signs.
6. Count how many times he invites you to his house or for an outing without asking you for a sin. If the only times you met and never sinned is when you were not clean, then you are his sex doll.
7. He must be jealous for you. Not knowing where you are, what you are eating, who is chatting with you is a bad sign.
8. His willingness to know your people or family is a good sign.
9. Communication, answering your call any time, anywhere without limitations.
10. Publicly wanting to move around with you, either for shopping or visiting freinds or relatives.
11. Observe the kind of freinds he has. Someone willing to settle slowly stops moving with groups of freinds. When marriage is smelling, he has no time to play.
Loving you but not willing to marry you any time soon is another issue.
