Marriage is something which you cannot afford to leave in the hands of a friend or family member but the greatest adviser is God and you yourself. There might be a great commonality in the way you and your friend respond to the environment but it’s dangerous for your friend to advise you to marry a fat or slim woman. Your body chemistry makes up is different from that of your friend and his feelings might be for the slim one but yours for the fat one otherwise you are bound to marry your friend’s choice. Not to subdue the teaching, I have come to know that every human being is unique and the scientific make up of each one’ s body react differently from the other and as such our preferences and our responses to love is different. Always follow your heart but prayerfully. People are not always the same they can change and become anything but if you have taken care of all the godly virtues as key components in your partner, then you have hope that your marriage will last a test of time but if the foundation is weak, be certain to fail because marriage is a huge test that you need to pass every
day. So, before you choose be sure that you are happy and the choice has been out of an unconditional love, love without limits and boundary. Romance can be a great part of a relationship, and love is a key ingredient in a happy marriage, but without a bunch of other important things, it’s simply not enough.
By: Winfred Mupakasi Silumbwe
