When you notice that your partner has a side chick/side guy, don’t panic or begin a fight. Most cheating partners will use your fights as justifications and yet they caused it.
HOW CAN WE AVOID/PREVENT CHEATING?
1. Always face your partner and tell him/her that you love him/her and that you trust them so much.
2. Be committed to things of God. Let no one lie to you. Most men fear women who pray and arr faithful to God. No matter how much he can encourage himself, it’s painful to cheat when you know your wife is at the mountains praying. Imagine he reaches home from a side chick and finds you praying in the bedroom? He may pretend but he would have sensed danger.
WHAT LEADS TO MEN CHEATING? Dear ladies/Women, Most men are encouraged to continue cheating when he reaches home and;
A. You pick a fight
B. He finds you in a mood (after all he has already eaten, he will not care too)
C. He doesn’t find you home because you are out drinking beer. He will even start calling his relatives, saying my wife goes in bars and all so as to get sympathy from them.
D. He finds you busy on phone and you don’t give him attention.
He will justify his bad manners if the above 4 points are consistent
By: Winfred Mupakasi Silumbwe
